Morning Inspiration

I woke up this morning thinking about my life and the things I want to accomplish. I realized that I can set goals all day but what really matters is what I learn as I take the journey to achieve those goals; that is where the real satisfaction manifests.  
  
-LadyDUnscripted

Are you Living or Existing?

Ok I know this question is kinda deep, but really ask yourself... "ARE YOU LIVING OR EXISTING?" There is a difference. In my opinion, people who are living want things out of life and can actually say what those things are.  People who are living are not worried about mistakes because they understand that those "mistakes" are actually learning lessons.  People who are living go for it!  I can honestly say that at this tender age of 23, I am finally living.  I'm tearing up the script others had written for me, and doing things my way.  I now know what I want, and I'm not afraid of what lies ahead.  What about you?  Can you say that?  If not, why not?  Why are you just existing?  Because you have to understand that you are just taking up space and wondering in the breeze if you don't want anything out of this life.  If you are just existing, let me give you a tip... look up your numerology number and it should steer you in the right direction.  If you need help with that, hit me up and I will help! Don't be shy when it comes to this blog! Post a comment and share your story, I wanna hear from you, oh and remember... LIVE WITHOUT A SCRIPT!

-Lady Dee

Radio Co-Host/Writer

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Day 5 Master Cleanse Update

Day 1 Master Cleanse

The Master Cleanse or Lemonade Diet

I have finally jumped on the health craze bandwagon.  Starting on Saturday February 26, 2011, I will be starting my Master Cleanse!  I have to say I’m pretty excited about it though.  I have read the book, “The Master Cleanser: by Stanley Burroughs, and I am pretty impressed with all the wonderful things this cleanse is supposed to do for me.  I hear from the YouTube community that it’s best to do a little fast before taking the plunge 48 hours before, so I guess you can say I have stated today.  Today, Thursday February 24, 2011, I am starting my fast which will include me only eating fruits and vegetables, and drinking only water.  My starting weight is 147 1bs. (I will post pics!)  I will also be filming this journey with you all, so make sure to follow me on twitter @LadyDeeWorld, and check out my YouTube channel http://www.youtube.com/user/504CajunStyle for updates.  My goal is to keep this cleanse going for 10 days.  Which actually calculates to 12 days, because after the cleanse I have to wean myself back onto food for 2 more days.  I am not just doing this to lose weight.  I am doing this to gain mental clarity and start fresh with a healthy lifestyle from then after.  I feel like this is very important, and I feel like there is no better way to do this than by cleaning by body out and starting over. If there is anybody out there that would like to do this with me, HIT ME UP!  I would love the support.  WISH ME LUCK!

-Lady Dee

 

Are Immigrants Really Taking From You?

Ok so, last night I had an interesting conversation with a few people.  We were talking about Immigrants in America who come here and are able to get on their feet with grant money and start businesses that in turn make them very successful while us Americans are struggling.  Me and everyone in the room had strong opinions about this.  Half the room said it's not fair that the Immigrants can come get food stamps, medicaid and job placement to get on their feet, and we have to jump through hoops in order to get those benefits and yet we are the ones who are struggling.  I said to them, it's not the Immigrants' fault, and to be honest, I don't believe their argument  holds water.  HEAR ME OUT... Yes they can come and get those benefits, but only after gaining citizenship.  So at that point, they are one of us, and two, there are plenty of food stamps, grant money and opportunities for everyone.  As a matter of fact there are so many opportunities to go around that millions if not billions of that money doesn't even get used because we don't apply for it!  Why get mad at the Immigrants because they took advantage and you didn't?  Now for the one's who did apply and didn't qualify for said benefits, that is a government problem.  Take that up with them.  Before you get mad, ask yourself this, Did you vote to change the qualifications? Have you written any letters to your state representative? What have you done besides complain and point your finger?  To me, it seems that in America we are spoiled in a sense.  We were born and raised here and so a lot of us know what we can do, but we don't take advantage just because.  Look at it from their point of view, when all your life you wish to have the chance to make something of yourself but were never allotted the opportunity, what would you do if that opportunity revealed itself to you... GO FOR IT, right!?!  It's almost like an appreciation factor if you think about it.  The chance to make it means a lot more when you can see crystal clear how you could be living and not have that option.  Now this is REAL TALK so don't get upset. I'm sure there are plenty of other opinions, and I welcome them all because this is really interesting.  Please post, and be REAL, how do you feel about this "issue?"

Is it Ever Cool to Hook Back up With Your Ex?

Aight world! I want some honest answers with this one. We all know how it feels to get it in one more time with the good old ex.  But is this really cool?  I mean, you call them your ex for a reason right? Let me tell you how I feel.  I feel that every once in a while you get a little vulnerable, and jumping out there with new partners is scary for most people.  It's safe to go back to the one you've been with.  You know what's like, you know if they got something or not, you know all there is to know to stay safe.  But let's take into consideration your feelings.  Unless you are just numb to a sexual connection, how can you not start feeling some type of way after sex with the person you used to be with on a deep level?  I think sex with the ex is nice for the moment, but terrible for the future.  It's best to just keep things strictly platonic, other wise you're only messing with your own emotions.  IDK... you tell me what you think! I'm listening!!!

Also, make sure to tune in @ crescentcityradio.com on Friday from 6-10pm and listen to me The First Lady of the Real Talk Family w/ Ya Boi DJ Dnice! We will be talking about this topic, and I'm sure it's going to be interesting. Don't Miss Out!

-Ya Girl Lady Dee